How To Make Social Media Friends
Posted on July 23, 2007 by
Adie
Social Media
14 Comments
In the last two days, I’ve talked about social media. The first post was about how social media is trumping content. The second post was about the power of social media. Social media friendships are the key to leveraging social media sites, so today we’ll discuss practical ways to build these friendships.
1. Vote
Vote on other people’s submissions. This is the essence of social media friendship.
2. Comment
Most social media users don’t comment, so you’ll set yourself apart by following this tip. Be one of the first to comment. Also, comment on stories you think will make the front page. This will help you get noticed by the social media community.
3. Contact
Some users don’t check their comments, so this is a good way to interact with them. Write them about their submissions and the stories they voted on.
4. Submit
Don’t just sumbit content from your own site. Submit quality content from other sites. Do this so that the community won’t think you’re a spammer. Also, if you only submit your own stuff, you’re breaking the TOS. Your account could be deleted.
5. Notify Users Of Your Submissions
Use this step to get the votes needed to hit the front page. Again don’t just promote your own stuff.
By continually doing these 5 tips, you’ll be on your way to becoming a reputable user. You’ll have a great chance of making the front page. And by making the front page a couple times with content from different sites, you’ll gain a lot credibility from the community.
At that point, anything you submit will automatically get many votes. You can get instant traffic to your site whenever you want.
Miscellanous Tips
Don’t overdo the promotion of your own sites. If the community thinks your spamming them, they’ll stop voting for your sites.
Your story must be good quality. If you submit something mediocre, you may get voted down. Also, you’ll lose credibility. You don’t have to write the best resource known to man. Just write something your niche would find useful or interesting. Do some creative brainstorming. Look at your industry and find an untapped topic. Find humor in your niche. Hire a ghostwriter if you need to.
If people are submitting your content, by all means, contact them and thank them. These are the people that already like your stuff. Become friends with them.
Seek to build friendships with the popular users. These users are the ones that always seem to have a front page story. These users are active in the social media site. They’re more likely to vote. Also, I believe in some social media sites their votes have more weight.
Be patient. Like offline friendships, online friendships take time to develop. Stay motivated by focusing on the great reward.
Conclusion
All these tips have a common thread. The overarching principle is this: be an active participant in the social media community. Unlike other users who are borderline spamming, you want to engage the community. As you do this, people will respect and notice you. You’ll get more votes. Your site will be noticed more. And you’ll improve your site’s brand and your personal brand.
Do you have any other tips to add?
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I think comments work the best and newsletters. You don’t usually get comments unless you give them back. It’s a whole cycle.
Dan Schawbel
Personal Branding Magazine
Hi,
Great post. I am a professional ghostwriter myself, and the tips you outlined are on point.
Thanks,
Taryn Simpson
http://www.Taryn-Simpson.blogspot.com
I like this because it shows simple steps that most people overlook. It separates the doers from the complainers.
Have you seen direct results for your own projects from this strategy?
I’ve had some success with StumbleUpon on my own sites. StumbleUpon is the easiest social media site to get a lot of traffic because they don’t have a “front page” system. Most of the other sites require you to get a good number of votes to hit the front page. If you don’t hit the front page, you get little to no traffic. StumbleUpon is different. Even if you have a few votes on StumbleUpon, you still get a lot of traffic.
Most of this info has come from research and observing successful social media users. In my experience, I get more votes when I participate in the social media community. However, I have not hit the front page. Actually, I have not really tried. I was mostly using the social media sites for free links rather than traffic.
I may sound like a hypocrite since I haven’t hit the front page. I’m designating August as a time for me to learn how to do it.
It’s only recently that I’ve realized the power of social media. I really believe the making the front page on social sites is the best method for getting traffic, exposure, branding and links. Matt, the founder of this blog, got multiple Digg front page stories that drove traffic to this blog. In less than 6 months, he sold this blog for $13,000.
I will keep you posted.
This post inspired me to revisit my Twitter account which I had been neglecting. I really forgot how much help Twitter can be!
Looks like Twitter is a good fit for promoting your blog.
Dee, you’re baller. ;)
Thanks!
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